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For the people pleaser, perfectionist, overachiever ready to trade hustling to prove herself for more peace, confidence and calm

Because let’s be honest, all that caring what other people think, anxious attachment and living a life that looks good on paper but leaves you feeling “meh” gets really exhausting.

Your simple plan to stop living to please.

Whether you’re on day 1 or 1000 of your recovering “good girl” era, the no brainer place to start is my mini-course, “Debunking the Need to Please”.

Every day for the next 6 days, I’ll drop a juicy email in your inbox with some of my biggest aha’s, some of the practices that have helped me and the important reminders, specifically for the overachiever type, to help you really understand what it’s going to take to tackle that people pleasing and stop caring so much what other people think. The best part, it’s totally free.

 
 

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Let’s just say I have a lot of thoughts about the mindset, habits and tools that help former people pleasers and perfectionists fast track to a more confident, secure, fulfilled version of themselves. You can check them all out below or let me help you find what you’re looking for…

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8 Things I've Learned about Personal Growth

Every piece of work we do to understand our mind and have a healthier relationship with ourselves is building our habits for the future. But as I have been spending more energy on this task, one of the first things I struggled to wrap my head around was "What does growth even look like?"

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Books that Changed How I Look at Money

And I really wish more schools would teach some basic personal finance way younger to give more people (especially women) confidence in their knowledge about personal finance. So I’ve continued to add to my knowledge over time, through my favorite source of new knowledge: books!

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Credit Score 101

There’s one number that has a pretty serious impact on your financial life but it’s not 100% clear how it’s calculated. Unfair, right?

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Saving for Retirement 101

Anytime I start reading or researching investing or taxes or money in general, it prompts a bigger topic: What are we saving FOR? No matter how far off retirement is for you, one day we'll all want/need to stop working and need to have enough money stored away to finance our life. Are you ready?

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Taxes 101

Let’s talk about the reason why that fancy salary number you were told when you got the job doesn’t magically appear in full in your bank account every month!

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Gender Pay Gap 101

This is not a happy topic. This one makes me angry. Especially when you add it to all the other bias related stuff in our world. It makes me extra angry for black women, latinx women and women of color who get and even shorter end of the stick.

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Gender Investing Gap 101

This post covers one of those mysterious, mystical (not at all….) forces that stops women from achieving their biggest dreams. It’s a topic that I can't. stop. talking. about:

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Great NYC Restaurants You Might Not Hear About

There are so many “hyped” restaurants in New York. And many of them deserve it. But there are some awesome spots that are doing awesome meals for great evenings that don’t need fanfare. I lovingly refer to these as “cool but not fussy” and I mean that as the highest compliment.

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Best NYC Brunch Spots

Regardless of your opinion on brunch, New York City does it really well. This list could be enormous. I’m keeping it to the places I would happily go on a Saturday morning!

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NYC Classics You Must Try At Least Once

There are some famous New York spots - some famous from movies, others from just the folk lore of the city - where everybody should try once. I would say this applies to tourists or NYC residents but it especially applies to NYC residents. Let’s call it a point of pride.

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You know what your patterns are, you know what the fears are but how do you actually go about shifting those subconscious beliefs that dictate how we act when we’re triggered or emotional?! Turns out, it’s not about understanding as much as it’s releasing emotions from when you picked them up in the first place. There’s so many tools out there that claim to do this, but honestly, this is the one I keep coming back to. It doesn’t hurt that it can fit in pretty much anybody’s budget. (Plus the code SAMANTHA gets you an extra 15% off!)

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